| Commentary
from audience member.
You’ve probably never heard of prosopagnosia or faceblindness.
I hadn’t. When Anna told us the subject of her play, I really
worried that with the seriousness of this condition, no one would
be interested. It’s an unfamiliar problem with hard to imagine
symptoms. I thought, couldn’t she write about a familiar disease
like diabetes or drug addiction or AIDS? Or skip disorders entirely
and write about love or politics?
Then, last May I got to see Solo Face (then a one-woman
piece) and I realized that as I learned about prosopagnosia, I also
understood better the universally human situation of confronting
a problem we don’t understand and coming to terms with it.
This production adds an entry on the page of mystifying but very
real disorders. As you watch you may remember your own illnesses
or someone else’s—which no one could explain. You may
remember the fear of admitting a problem you thought people might
laugh at or dismiss. Think about the despair of confronting an apparently
insurmountable obstacle—or incurable disease. The frustration
of deflecting advice from people who don’t understand. And
the partial or total ignorance of so-called experts.
As a disabilities service officer at a college, I meet a lot of
people whose disabilities are invisible, who’ve thought they
were dumb or crazy, who aren’t sure of their worth as people
because of things they can’t do, can’t learn, can’t
cope with. When I watch Sarah, I think of those students. And I
hope for them the epiphany she experiences as she reaches the point
of admitting, “This is what I’m not” and the glorious
moment beyond that when she can take pride that “this is what
I am.”
My sincere hope is that everyone who watches Solo Face will
not only enjoy the haunting melodies and experimental staging but
will really attend to the progress of a young woman whose distress
becomes recognition and eventually acceptance. Listen hard as her
words convey the depth of her insight. Then, take a little piece
of Sarah into the world with you in the form of greater compassion
and a more open acceptance of—and celebration of—difference.
Thanks. Enjoy. Virginia B. DeMers (Mother & Friend) |